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OP, no one has been condescending to you. People have expressed their opinions. Here's mine:
Please be aware that during the new member period, your membership can be fairly "easily" terminated; it is very important for you to be totally upfront from the get-go about your marital status. It could be most unpleasant if the chapter found this out after the fact.
Also, understand that sororities are voluntary membership organizations and that they each have established and follow their own constitution/bylaws/policies.
And what your friends tell you, or you research and read, really doesn't matter; it's your own actual recruitment/membership experience that counts.
I wish you good luck!
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"One of the painful things about our time is that those who feel certainty are stupid, and those with any imagination and understanding are filled with doubt and indecision." Bertrand Russell, The Triumph of Stupidity
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