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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle
How much knowledge does it take to know that there is nothing to be gained by being rude and insulting, which is what announcing you are not interested in a group which is hosting you for an event, formal or informal, is?
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Because when you're offered a job you don't want, you can turn it down and say that you're interested in another position.
Or if a friend invites you over to their house, you can tell them you can't come over because you're going to dinner with your sister.
Because, in high school, if you're invited to join a club or a group, it's not considered insulting to tell them that you don't want to join them because of *insert reason here*.
I'm not attempting to argue that it's proper Rush etiquette. I am just trying to point out, though, that sometimes people make mistakes due to ignorance. There's no need to call any girl stupid.