I really appreciate all the feedback. I realize that you guys took the time to answer my questions and I reallllllly appreciate it. I have decided that it probably isnt realistic to join a "sorority" at my age, especially since there is a lack of options in the schools that I am attending to begin with. I guess I will just join clubs and other volunteer projects and hope that it fufills my desire for friendship and philanthropy.
I again, appreciate your feedback. You really helped me make the decision.