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I guess the OP needs to be honest with himself about which scenario is really going on here -- whether it's a situation of them breaking up because they're "supposed to" even when they don't want to, or whether it's a situation of deciding to break up because they want to but delaying the break-up's effective date because it's hard and scary to actually do it.
If the OP doesn't think the decision to break up is the right one, you and Tony are, I think, right, and he needs to revisit the decision with his girlfriend. But if he does think it's really the right decision, then he needs to own it, stop putting the actual break-up off and not live in limbo for the next few months.
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OP -- you're getting good advice and it's all correct --
depending on what side of the fence you're really on.