[DubaiSis]

I think the OP just hasn't gotten it yet about the (virtually forced) diminishment of legacy status. The fact is there are PLENTY of girls who are saying legacy or bust, and that hurts more girls than it helps. I applaud the parent who was a Chi O til I Die sort who is willing to let it go about her daughter's affiliation. And hopefully she's showing some other Chi O (not to beat up on Chi O's, just following the original example) Mom's to chill about her daughter's rush preferences and outcome.

If a girl is told over and over that she needs to keep an open mind about every chapter, so she actually goes in with an open mind and loves another (or 2 or 3) chapters, then everyone should be happy that she went with her heart, even if her legacy chapter was an option. And that includes Mom.