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Originally Posted by socalmarci
... I have to admit that I kind of like the idea of hazing.
Now, that's not to say that I like all forms of hazing; but I do believe there can be some useful applications of hazing. Personally, I like the idea of being put through something possibly uncomfortable or unpleasant to earn something I consider of value. I mean take military boot camp for example, some of the sh!t that takes place is considered hazing; but it's not without purpose. I think that a fraternity or sorority who puts new members through similar types of rigor could build some strong characteristics and bonding in their initiates; so long as there is a true and legitimate higher purpose.
Ultimately, many hazing rituals can be viewed as symbolic references to life experiences. Sometimes life 'hits' you, and if you're a punk then life is going to F you up, but if you can learn to take those 'hits' and still continue on with what you've set out to accomplish there's value in that.
I would like to have a set of fairly hardcore rituals and exercises specifically geared toward preparing initiates for tough conditions that may arise during their college tenure and early stages of their professional careers, even their personal lives and relationships; all that are fun, stressful, painful, tiring, emotional, embarrassing, motivating, and inspiring. Maybe some people will get hurt, maybe some people will want to drop-out, maybe some people will have emotional breakdowns, but in the end their brothers are 100% committed to everyone making it through and being better because of it, and they will love each other for it. Is that so wrong? Am I just crazy? Is this just some fantasy I have conjured up in my head? I don't think so, I think there can be 'responsible hazing'.
PS - I'm not greek (yet), but I plan on pledging when I transfer from CC.
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Mother of God, you're an idiot. Symbolic references for life experiences? You have no grip on reality, do you? The COLLEGE EXPERIENCE ITSELF is what will help prepare you for the rest of your life. Do you think non-greeks are incapable of coping with the tough shit life will push because they were never hazed? Studying alone and excelling in your classes alone can be fun, stressful, painful, tiring, emotional, embarrassing, motivating and inspiring. You don't need hazing to experience those things in college! If someone gets hurt or has an emotional breakdown due to HAZING, that is NOT FUCKING COOL. AT ALL. EVER.
EVER. One person getting hurt is not worth everyone else having a "fun" hazing experience. 100% committed to "making it through" and then loving each other at the end of it all? Are you kidding me? When some groups try to justify hazing as a way to "weed out the weak?" Are you a masochist? What unicorn piss rainbow do you live under? You aren't greek, so yes, yes this is some crazy fantasy you have made up in your head.