[misscherrypie]

Hey,
I was dealing with the exact same thing as you until yesterday. I didn't have a date for our formal and was spazzing. When it comes to most things, I'm very assertive. Men/guys? I turn into a sniveling mess.

So, I didn't know who to ask....but had one guy friend that I found nice and even though he didn't seem like the formal 'type', I decided to go for it. I told myself that the next time I saw him, wherever that might be....I'd just say :"________ will you go to Beta Formal with me ?"
So, I saw him and....just went for it. He seemed very happy to be asked and said "Yes!"

You can do it! I know you can!