[AOII Angel]

To the OP, if you want to be in a sorority, I think your best chance is to join your sister's group. Honestly, you may have ruined your chances, however, by dropping out of recruitment. As a legacy who joined my sister's chapter a short year after she pledged, I understand what it is like to go through recruitment and not fall in love with your sibling's group. I was cut by every other group on campus and thankfully took my bid to AOII and never looked back. I thank my lucky stars every day that AOII took me in. What you see in recruitment is not what every day sorority life is all about, and honestly, if you can't find a group of women that you can bond with in the groups as large as they are in SEC chapters, there is something wrong with you. My best advice to you is to call your sister and see if it's not too late for you to join her as a sister. Does it suck that she got to go first and get her pick of chapters? Yeah, but who knows how things would have turned out if you'd done things differently, and as we tell women who are cut for other reasons...it's better to just move on and enjoy your life.