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Originally Posted by Low C Sharp
The best men really do get snapped up quick.
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I would patently disagree with this statement. I didn't do a lot of dating in college because I just wasn't into the whole thing. But I found men improved DRAMATICALLY after 30. I think some women might be ready to settle down in their early 20's but guys IMO are not mature enough to deal with all of it that young. I might suggest maintaining a hands-off relationship with the guys you think might have potential once they figure it out, but latching onto him 5 years before he's ready will result in frustration and/or unnecessary divorce. When I was starting to meet the quality guys in my early 30's they ALL seemed to be divorced, and to a man they had all gotten married just before they turned 25 and on reflection they would admit they got married at that time because that's what you're supposed to do. They maintained social convention instead of holding out a few more years to actually be ready to settle down.
And FYI there is no correlation between a fancy diploma and a quality personality. Douchiness has no social ceiling.