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1) Read your chapter's bylaws and any National policies. My own chapter had much more stringent rules than our National policies.
2) Are you looking for a short term leave of absence (LOA) or do you plan on not returning to active collegiate status before you graduate? Some sororities do offer LOA for specific reasons. It's usually a one time use for a specific period of time. Again, read your bylaws.
3) Your grad school plans and forthcoming engagement don't have any baring on this question.
4) Definitely speak with your applicable VPs for Scholarship and Finance. They may have more information and can tell you what options are available. If you're not already, a payment plan might be feasible.
5) The VPs may have you speak with their advisors in an effort to find a solution. Sometimes, exceptions have to be escalated for approval.
6) Find out what resources your school provides. There may be scholarships and loans you qualify to receive.
7) Finally, check out your school's mental health resources. The hardships you described are a lot for anyone to deal with at any age. Speaking with a counselor can help you learn to effectively deal with what I'm sure is an emotionally draining experience.
Good Luck!
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