[*winter*]

Just seconding what everyone else has said- quite frankly, a sorority is the least of your problems. You need HELP! If you are fortunate enough to make it to the end of the semester, please look into residential or partial programs for depression and/or anorexia. What you are going through WILL NOT STOP until you treat the core issue. Some people can "function" like this...some cannot. Perhaps you will wind up dropping out of college in a year. Or not. But "functioning" is not the same as living- especially these early years, it's so important to be at a place emotionally and physically where you can really cherish this time in your life.

This sort of thing doesn't go away, and eventually you will lose your relationship and your educational pursuits. I agree with OPers...take time off to deal with it now so you can get a good start to your life. And DO leave things on good terms with the sorority...perhaps in the future you may want to participate in it again (if possible.)

Transferring won't make things different, because the problem is inside of you, and you will take it wherever you go. The best thing to do, IMO, is to start researching summer programs for when you go home. Complete some treatment, get a good relationship with a therapeutic team going over the summer...and then decide your future from there, with their (and family) support. Don't try to figure it out now.