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Originally Posted by alphaprez
My chapter and I are completely against hazing and I want no part of it. But we need to do something to get our chapter motivated. They don't want to participate in anything and they are very cliquey. We are restricted from doing a lot of things because we are on probation  so I need good solid ideas of what some other chapters do to keep everyone close and involved!
Also, our new members have been acting rude toward older sisters and they see it as a sign of disrespect. I have no intentions of hazing them whatsoever but I do not know how to make them respect the sisterhood. Our actives respect them but it seems like the new members aren't making an effort! helppppppp
*** I really don't need people being negative and criticizing my question. If you are going to be rude or condescending please don't bother responding. If I wanted to be put down I wouldn't come here expecting help.
*** the reason we are on probation is irrelevant so don't bother asking that either.
I JUST WANT SOME ADVICE! |
What I don't understand is that you cannot get out of your head the idea that hazing = respect. You've posted before that you "don't want to haze" but yet you keep mentioning it.
Have you contacted your advisers like others suggested in your other thread(s)? What about HQ? If you are an Inter/National organization, you should have a solid New Member program and a whole tree of people to contact should you need help.
Are you giving New Members respect, or are you treating them like petulant children with punishments?
People gave some good advice in your other threads. Contact your advisers, HQ or other chapters.