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There are two issues here:
1) For some people, there is a slight discomfort, but they suck that up and do it anyway. I think I fall into this category. Being asked to participate in a ritual with Christian elements, or those elements being specially modified for me, is really just a reminder of "hey, you are different", which is something that any non-Christian in America deals with a thousand times in their lives, and while I'd prefer not to deal with it in my ritual, it's pretty much the same as when people in my office buy me Christmas cards. I accept that the sentiment trumps the exact wording.
2) A much bigger concern to me is that some elements of ritual might straight-up conflict with people's beliefs, as something they are absolutely not willing to do. I know everyone here is saying "oh, it's no big deal, that has never happened in my group", but I don't find it far-fetched at all that some non-Christian students would just avoid the Greek system entirely because of the PERCEPTION that these are Christian (or Jewish) rituals, regardless of the reality. I think it would be great if more groups opened their ritual books, or made their ritual truly non-denominational with a statement to that effect.
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