You stated that she "doesn't want to be forgotten". It seems like she has forgotten that she is no longer an active, but an ADVISER. that is supposed to ADVISE. As I tell my girls all the time, I am like the cool aunt. I can treat you like a sister, keep your secrets, and then kick your butt when you are being stupid. But above all, I give advice. I don't make the decisions. I make sure the rules are followed, but sometimes I need to step back and let them fail a bit.
good luck to you!
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So I enter that I may grow in knowledge, wisdom and love.
So I depart that I may now better serve my fellow man, my country & God.
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