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Originally Posted by smiley1
I grew up in a small town, went to a small school and wasn't really exposed to a lot of partying.
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The small town you grew up in and the small school you went to sound different from the small town I grew up in and the small school I went to.
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Do you think it's going to look bad for me if I avoid all of the parties and just do the sisterhood stuff? . . . Can I keep dodging the social stuff and still be a decent sorority member?
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The social stuff is part of the sisterhood/brotherhood stuff. I echo what others have said: You're likely to find yourself in this situation for the rest of your life. This is a great opportunity to learn to be comfortable with yourself and confident in your choices in situations where others are drinking. And I agree that you're likely to find others who choose not to drink.