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Thanks for the advice! I think it would be a lot easier to go to a mixer for a while and duck out when I want to. They are usually at the Fraternity houses on campus. The cocktails and formals are actually what I'd prefer to go to.. but they are held off campus and sometimes out of town, so I can't just slip away as easily. The problem with mixers is that they start late and a lot of my friends will pre-party. (This is not just my sorority...it's all over campus in dorms, apartments, sorority houses, etc.) They go to someone's room, either in the dorm or in the house, and pretty much pound drinks so that by the time they get to the mixer a lot of them are trashed. I know I can skip this part....that's not what I'm saying. And I'm sure there are plenty of girls that don't do this. As soon as I get to know people better, I'm sure I'll find a group that are more like me.
Out of curiosity - does the drinking culture at college seem to have gotten worse? Has it always been this way?
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