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I guess it's those "pathetic" adults that are so grateful for what they received in their sorority, that they want to give something back. If your sorority means that little to you, maybe you should just quit now and avoid the rush.
Maybe you didn't understand me the first time when I said how much I love my sorority and my sisters, especially my best friends. I never said it meant little to me, and if it did then I wouldn't be a part of it. You don't know me, so you don't know how I don't waste my time doing things that I think are stupid. I LOVE my chapter. I love what being a Phi has brought me...an internship, meeting my boyfriend, experiencing leadership, and more, BESIDES just the general aspect of sisterhood. But what I don't want to do is go around visiting chapters and woohooing about Alpha Phi when I'm a mother, married, having a full time job and etc. I respect those that run the organization at the top level. And there are jobs such as marketing, PR, com, and others that are of great value to the organization, but at the base level I am not going to be one of those people hung up on sorority life. I'm not saying that's what chapter advisers are ALL like (though I have met a few that are, and not from my chapter) and I'm not even aiming this AT chapter advisers but I'm saying what I feel. You don't have to like my opinion, but you're not going to keep me from having it. Additionally putting words in mouth saying "my sisterhood means nothing, that I should quit rush and etc" is really a rather false attempt at proving an indignant attitude on my part. Get some class...
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