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I apologize, I wrote my original post when I had a million other things going through my head, so I didn't really stop to think about the impression I was giving off. As a senior, reputation/stigma/whatever mean nothing to me. I made the decisions I did as a freshman/sophomore because at my school, your sorority tends to become your primary social group during your sophomore year, and like I said in my original post, I didn't connect with any of the girls I spoke with, so I couldn't really see myself spending a large part of my time with those girls.
@DubaiSis I most certainly am not expecting to be an "it girl" nor do I want that. I could honestly care less about mixers and I've had plenty of experience in leadership roles for other campus organizations of having to fight to get people to come to events. I just wanted to see if my suspicions were true, that's the only reason why I mentioned any of that. I'm more focused on getting to know a group of girls that I may not have interacted with otherwise before I graduate and to become a part of something with a rich, long-standing legacy. I know that the process will require a great deal of inner strength, but I feel like the "high cost, high reward" decisions in life are often the most fruitful...But, thank you so much for all your advice. I really appreciate it!
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