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Originally Posted by tapuz
My Rho started tearing up as I was talking to her about my disappointment...and she even texted me about it the next morning.
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I am sure that she was genuinely feeling bad for you. When I was a rush counselor one of the girls in my group asked to speak to me privately. She and her HS best friend were roommates and had promised each other that they would only pledge the same sorority. As rush progressed, they found themselves being drawn to different sororities. She was so upset and crying so hard that she could hardly catch her breath because she really, really liked her favorite and her best friend did not. I started tearing up myself, because she was a sweet girl that i had come to like and I hated that she was so upset. I had no vested interest in her decision, because my sorority was no longer in the running with either girl. I just wanted to help and make her feel better and I guess I did. She ended up pledging her first choice, and her bff pledged her own first choice, and as far as I know they were both very happy in their decisions.