I will admit that I have felt intimidated by one of the alumnae groups that I attended. I hasten to add that it was MY own fault, though. The women were welcoming and gracious. They were mostly from the same very prestigous chapter, had immense homes, and very high social profiles. I just didn't fit in there, which was absolutely no fault of theirs. I was able to find a smaller alumnae chapter with women closer to my own age & stage in life. I enjoy it very much. I am lucky that there are several to choose from around here
