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Do not call the first fraternity. Wait until Wednesday.
You can go to the 2nd fraternity's event. IF you are offered a bid to them at their event tonight, tell them that you appreciate it but you do want to think about it because it is a serious commitment.
And, not to sound like a jerk, but do not "assume" you got a bid to the 2nd fraternity or think that just because you already know and are "on a first name basis" with the majority of members of the top choice group that they offered you a bid. You would be surprised at how contentious bid sessions can get in a fraternity and anything can happen. Seen it on GC and seen it in real life.
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