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The way I'm reading your post, you have not actually pledged yet, but have signed a bid card. You've been given good advice here, so follow up quickly with IFC and find out what your options are at this stage of the game.
As for the other fraternity, all you can do is speak with them. I would start with the rush chairman. They liked you enough to extend you a bid, so they might be willing to hear you out. Tell them you made a mistake, but take care not to dog the other fraternity.
I'm curious as to what made you feel guilt-tripped into signing.
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