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Originally posted by PhiSigMeg01
I think personally that even if you do not have a super-close connection to your sapphire sister (which I happen to have because she was my best friend long before we pledged). 
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Question, you're allowed to have someone who is already a friend as your Sapphire Sister? During our colonizing period we were told that we we shouldn't have as our Sapphire Sisters someone who is already you're friend. This is to ensure that the sisterhood bonds grow outward to the new members in our chapter. We don't say anything about them being in the same family though. So I was lucky in that my "lil" sis was paired with one of my best friends as her "lil" sis. At first I didn't like the idea that we couldn't be sapphire sisters with someone we're already close to but now I do like it as I've been lucky in my sapphire sister matches. I was maid of honor at my founding twin's wedding and I'm good friends with my little.