[thetalady]

YES, Mom... the chapters will know who was cut previously. The reason may not matter the second time around, but they almost certainly know that she is re-rushing. Keeping notes is not the issue. We cannot possibly guess if your chapter will cut her again or not.

If I was in your position, I would remind my daughter that she still had chapters to choose from prior to pref. Think of all the girls that had NO chapters to choose from? How much would they have loved to have those same choices? Being in a sorority is a gift of sisterhood. Hopefully she can decide to appreciate & accept that gift from those who offered it to her, rather than focusing on the chapter that she thought she had to have.