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From one of your other threads, I gather you transferred and this is your first semester at your school? Your school isn't huge, so coming in mid-year would possibly put you at a disadvantage because you didn't meet any fraternity men last semester like a lot of the guys in recruitment may have.
The good news is that it is the beginning of a brand new semester and you can get out and about to meet people. That includes guys in fraternities. Academics first, of course, but make this semester also about getting acclimated to your new school, meeting people and learning about the fraternities. Meeting and observing them in non-recruitment situations is also a good way to get an idea of where you would best fit in. With so many chapters on your campus, you should be able to find a good house for you.
It's hard, I know, but try not to take this personally and don't get bitter -- the majority of fraternities didn't even meet you. Of those who did, the reasons you haven't heard back could be any of the reasons you have already been given and things might be very different in the fall. Get out around campus, meet people, put your best foot forward and try again in the fall. Best wishes to you!
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