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The Wait
Hmmm. I am mad new to this whoa "greekchat"/posting thing, so let me first make my disclaimer and gain friends before I lost some with my typewritter words! So Big A Phi to My Fellow Greeks
06 to my Frat, much love to the sorors.
Now to the Nitty. Can I wait (speaking for one man of course). My answer is that it is a strong possiblity that I have it within me to wait. I truly find myself intriqued by women for a myriad of things, physically and mentally. As of today, in 2002, my answer leans strongly towards waiting or "prolonging" due to a number of personal factors; I feel as though I have "made" it (college grad, no children (bless those who do), young, disease free, and ALL MY TEETH!) yet have still so much further to go and accomplished. Mentally, I know that I am wanting that queen in my life (someone to challenge, push, be my biggest conqueror of me and me of her), but do fear if I am ready to "step up to the plate" if you will. My goal is not to "date" women, but to certainly learn from their experiences and help me grow in life. Sex, I have learned, becomes an unimportant important part of a relationship. But what I feel we have been to quick to experience is that virtual "masterbation"...that for the moment feeling of pleasure that accomplishes nothing but wanting more of a contentment a toy, woman or even hand could give you!
I feel that when I have been presented with "celibacy", it has not been a problem to regard a "no sex" rule; I think any man with a ounce of intelligence will vouch for that. Yet, some stimulation is Required. What is your niche? If sex was how you kept an individual interested in you in the past, what do you present to keep that intrique going?
To be blunt, yes I have enjoyed sex. Yes, I have loved making love. Is it an issue of a woman being celibate: no...but make that celibacy be a completely physical trait and not one that effects your mind, meaning a womans angle be "no sex" and every time we interact it is "to bad I am celibate" or "even still I am celibate" or "I wish I werent celibate". I guess I am touching on different types of "celibacy":mental and physical. Heard of Mind Sex (a phase over used yet still true)
Be Mindfull and Let your relationships flow. Showing attraction is not through a physical satisfaction.
Anyways and As always
Holla Front
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