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There's also some internal slut-shaming that I find pretty problematic, like women going to standards for sleeping with too many frat boys. Again, I am of two minds here: on one hand, not all sexual behavior is destructive. On the other, such a pattern of behavior in a 19-year-old *may* indicate a problem, and genuinely lending a sisterly hand can be crucial. I'd probably have to think more on ways to address things like this in a positive manner.
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Your choice of words is less than eloquent and perpetuates the stereotypes that we work so hard to eliminate here. From my experience, what you mention above is rare. Just my experience. We always let a woman lead her own personal life in the chapter that I belonged to.