[IndianaSigKap]

Going to focus on positive advice...you said your friend in a sorority suggested that you sign up. I think that's a positive sign. If I didn't feel like someone I knew from class or the dorms was a good fit for Greek life then I did not suggest it to them.

As far as your size goes, a women can look good at any size as long as she knows how to dress for her shape. A close friend of mine was a 16-18 and always looked much bigger due to her clothing choices. She would choose longer tops thinking she was hiding problem areas, when in fact, she was making the problem worse. There are cute, flattering clothing styles for ALL body types, but knowing what to pick out can be difficult. Or picking the right colors or accessories can be tricky for some people. if you look good, it's natural to feel more confident in a social situation. Is there a friend with good taste you can take shopping with you? If not, some stores offer personal shopping services for either free or a small fee. Overall, try to focus on the positives: you have a strong GPA, friends in chapters, good reputation, etc. See if you can do some networking in your hometown to find recs. Ask teachers, friends' parents, church friends, etc. Best wishes to you!