[preciousjeni]

With a fiance drawing your attention, it sounds like you may be halfway checked out to begin with. Are you making the sorority a priority in your life? If not, you're not going to get as much out of the experience.

It also sounds like you're staying holed up in your room if you don't know what folks are watching on tv. If you spend more time socializing, you'll find yourself with more opportunities to get out of the house with the group.

If you're an introvert, don't worry. A lot of us are. It just means you have to try a little harder to put yourself out there.

If it's not worth it to put forth the effort, get out sooner than later.