[33girl]

If you go home every single weekend, you are going to miss out on a LOT of the informal bonding that goes on.

Don't the house sisters sit around and watch Gossip Girl or whatever together? It's hard for me to believe that ALL they do is drink and party.

Have people asked you to go to parties with them? You don't have to drink. (Most college students who do choose to drink have figured out that if someone else doesn't drink, there is more for them, so they could care less if someone doesn't drink.) When you invite someone to go out with you out of wanting to make friends and they flat turn you down, it isn't going to help you like the person.

If you aren't there on weekends, and you don't associate with anyone except at required events, it's going to be hard for you. You have to make more of an effort when you are there, if the weekend thing is something you absolutely can't alter.

Of course, if you don't want to try or change in the least, you should probably drop now and see if someone who would like to live in the house can sublet from you.