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Originally Posted by Reptar626
My story goes as such:
I go to a small school with a large population of greek life and had no interest in pledging anything. Rush season comes around and I try it out, thinking I would end up going to our chapter of Alpha Xi Delta (lovely group of girls).
I chose the pink and white and never looked back.......until I did. For the past few months I've felt distant and alone and playing the 'what if?' card 10-15 times a day. Finally, after a huge emotional explosion, I chose to deactivate. At the time, it felt as right as accepting my invitation from the Phi Mu.
Now here I am, wondering, did I make the right choice THIS time? Or had I made the right choice all along?
So I pose this heartfelt question to you.
What does Phi Mu mean to you? Because hopefully, I can find some solace and/or closure about what I should be doing with my life.
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Thank you to my Panhellenic sisters who've already responded. I will just add to the thread that you can always appeal to be reinstated.
What's really problematic to me, though, is that you explain the choice of Phi Mu or no sorority as "what you should be doing with your life". I was very involved as a collegiate member, and got a lot out of my membership in Phi Mu, but at no point would I describe it as my entire life. If that's the expectation you have for a sorority, I suggest you see about talking to a counselor who may be able to give you guidance on a larger perspective for your life.