[aephi alum]

Originally Posted by axWOAH

My boyfriend's in Triangle and we are very serious, but I don't know if Triangle lavaliers since they don't have greek letters. He gave me his "letters" to wear a month or so ago, and all my sisters keep asking me if I'm lavaliered, but I don't even know if I can be! Does anyone know? Thanks

My husband is not in a social fraternity. He "lavaliered" me by giving me a little heart-shaped pendant. My chapter celebrated it like any other lavaliering.

I don't see why your lavaliering should be treated any differently just because your boyfriend is in a fraternity that doesn't use Greek letters. Run it by your boyfriend to make sure he agrees that giving you his letters is his fraternity's equivalent to lavaliering. If so, talk to your chapter's ritualist about a candle lighting.