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Originally Posted by MysticCat
But what seems disrespectful to me is ignore the loss these posters are feeling. As 33girl says, often those feelings need to be resolved before one is ready to move on to other possibilities.
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I agree with much of what you wrote, but I don't feel that anyone is ignoring the loss some of these posters are feeling.
Luckily, a few days ago,
33girl advised MissCherryPie, to seek therapy and join a non-traditional student's group
asap. So it seems these feelings have been duly acknowledged -- even accompanied by a suggestion of what to do next -- ASAP, in fact.
Not delivered in an especially sensitive fashion, but I don’t disagree with the suggestion.
We can split hairs all we wish on similarities/differences of relationships formed in this or that organization. Two girls in the
same chapter will not even have the
same experience. Like every other experience in life, it is what you make of it.