[janetgriselle]

And how dare you suggest I try a grown up alertnative I take that kinda offensive even if you had no bad intentions behind it.

There are lots of grown up alternatives that could prove to be just as fulfilling as a collegiate sorority. Look into Beta Sigma Phi, it is a social sorority that accepts women of all ages and holds socials and participates in community service related events. It still provides a sisterhood, just not within the collegiate realm, and the majority of the women there are moms!