[andrew32]

I mean what kind of questions do I ask them(to show I am interested)? Btw this is a mid tier fraternity, but also going up every year,which is why I am kinda worried I might blow up my chances. They call themselves the "real gents" at my school,and almost all the sororities want to party with them. They may be not big, but they know how to attract all these girls.

But I completely get what you all are saying. I need to find my own fit,not just run to the biggest and the best place. That's why I am keeping my options open, plus cost is a little factor for me.

Is there any kind of advice thread that people can link to?