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Well, sad to say, I've not had a boyfriend for quite some time (which includes after my greek-affiliation). But, I was thinking about this the other day and I'm not sure if anyone else would agree with me or not, but here goes... I think it's harder to date non-greek when you are greek. So much of our time goes into our organization and not many non-greeks understand or want to accept that. A lot of them think it's all partying, but it's not and you all know that so I don't need to explain myself here. And as seen in other threads the rituals and bonds are sacred and they may seem silly or juvenile to non-greeks and that's really sad. When you date other greeks they know what it means to you, and they have the same amount of commitment to their organization (hopefully anyway). Also I've found that non-greek guys (atleast the ones that I was seeing last year, although not officially) get jealous easily when you have socials with frats. I dunno, that's just my two cents at 5:42am. Ugh.. why am I still up?
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