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Old 10-24-2012, 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted by lizz2152 View Post
In september I accepted a bid from one particular sorority. After spending a couple of weeks with the girls however, I feel I don't really fit in with my pledge class. Also when I was going through recruitment, there was one or two other sororities that I loved and felt I clicked with better.
What you feel matters very little, unless the feeling is mutual. Have you become friends with members of these sororities? Do you spend time with them? Have any of them sought you out to express to you that they are sorry you didn't pledge there?

If not, you really need to stay put, stop thinking about other sororities and think about the one that you are part of NOW. Your pledge class is immaterial - many people (at least if GC is any indication) do not form their closest, longest-lasting sorority relationships with their pledge sisters. Concentrate on the sisters you DO click with.
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