Unfortunately, most of the people involved with this discussion are ignoring the bigger problem. HAZING!!!! Let's be honest ladies...how many of you WEREN'T hazed in some form or fashion while you pledged. I'm hearing a lot about "turning" offending sorors in, but I know enough women who were willing to put up with ANYTHING just so that they wouldn't be called "PAPER" by other sororities and fraternities! Most women pledge when they are young, and pardon the expression, stupid. All they see are letters and colors. Most do not gain perspective about their sorority until they have graduated and are out in the real world a while. Most pledges don't want to chicken out or seen as a loser, or worse a traitor, and so they do nothing. Ladies....there is serious abuse going on out there. And it's happening on most campuses and in all types of sororities - NPC, NPHC, Latina, Asian, and Multicultural! We need to face up to this fact and deal with it.
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