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Originally Posted by cocoxchanel
A new sorority colonized at my school and I decided to join it. However I never did formal recruitment so I never got to see the other sororities my campus has. Additionally since it's new here, I feel like I'm not getting the typical sorority experience that all my other friends are getting (while paying a lot more than them) and I just don't know if this is the right sorority for me. Because it's new no one really knows each other, I know this will improve over time though. I haven't been initiated yet so I can easily drop out but if I don't get the sorority I want next year, it's a big risk. Therefore I need some help on what's best.
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No one can tell you what's best for you. Only you can decide what that is. That being said, you're absolutely right: you probably aren't getting the typical sorority experience. And that's a good thing! To be able to call yourself a founding member, to take pride in being part of a new colonization, to come together with an amazing group of women, is an amazing opportunity not to many women get the chance to experience.
But if you aren't happy, perhaps it isn't the right sorority for you. Then again, any sorority you ultimately join (if you are lucky to receive a bid) also involves an investment of your time in order to acclimate and adjust to new sisters.