[adpimiz]

Originally Posted by adpiucf

There is a very simple solution here. If you're unhappy in your sorority, and you've made a concerted effort to be happy, then just drop out and move on.

Colonies are a lot of work, and if you think you'd be happier in a more established chapter, drop out of the colony and go through formal recruitment next year. Keep in mind that there are still membership requirements and trials and tribulations in any sorority. Even women who get their top choice often have second thoughts or doubts at some point. It's not always sunshine and rainbows.

This is a very simple choice. The colony will survive and thrive, with or without you. If you don't want to participate, then drop and try again next year in formal recruitment. At best, you receive a bid. At worst, you don't receive a bid. No one is going to beat their chest and tear out their hair over the agony of you leaving the colony. So make up your mind. Stay or go.

Yep.