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twin guilt?
Hi I am new to a sorority, and we have been given twins! like bigs/littles, but girls in the same pledge class. I made a bunch of cute home made things, like a photo frame, a beautiful small pin box that i painted and wrote our letters on and wrote her name inside in script and put a beautiful glittery flower on tip, a plaque with our open motto on it that i painted and wrote in script on, painted her initial and decorated it and got a set of wooden and glittered letters for her to hang on her wall... the only thing is, when I gave her one of those things today she gave me something so much bigger in return! I worked really hard, and for a long time on these things but i still feel really guilty how much more expensive hers must have cost, and the fact that my first gift was so much smaller. I plan on writing out some letters to her and our songs, but i can help but still feel guilty for the size comparison.
These gifts were supposed to be from the heart, yet I feel bad about how much smaller everything is. I Know it is okay that my things are smaller, but has anyone else experienced this? I would like to get an opinion or what you think...
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