[PhiMuNursie]

I've been sitting back watching all this after I was one of the firsts to "defend" UF. I've noticed an amusing trend in that the mods. continue to get more and more defensive about their decision. Did ya'll think we were gonna thank you? Even if you didn't, which I'm sure you didn't, did you not stop to think that maybe people would have a problem with this since most of the vulgarity surrounding UF was related to other "more respected" members attacking him. I think one of the only people he attacked personally was one of my sisters, other than that it was all on ya'll giving it to him because you felt threatened by someone who actually possesses social skills. Now before you bend me over your knee, I completely agree the things he spoke were not social graces, however, to condemn his friends for "defending" something so biased happening to him is just as ridiculous. I found his posts about women mildly amusing, does that make me crazy in some of your eyes, yes, and that's ok. We all know men like him, in fact the majority of his chapter here was like him. That's what I appreciated the most, their ability to always turn a touchy situation into humor. Now if ya'll wanna get political and turn this into a feminism thing, then that's your deal, but that's really just one more way to detract the attention away from an already bad situation that you ended up in the middle of. But perhaps if the mods. stopped defending themselves, they wouldn't come off like they feel something is wrong with the banning, further encouraging the rest of us to go on about this issue.

At any rate, yes there is a "heirarchy" here on GC. Anyone who claims there isn't is just ass kissing so they can move on up into the "upper level". Personally, I don't buy into it. You are going to form an opinion about me, my fraternity, and my sisters based on what you perceive. If I give you nothing but the best to rate us on, you'll still find something wrong with us because that's how it goes. All you have to do is refer back to the "Stud" thread to see how people will come up with anything to beat down another person/chapter so they feel better about themselves.

Now, this probably doesn't make much sense because it is put together in a random way, but the bottom line is I REFUSE to kiss anyone's ass so that I'm "well liked on GC." We all have opinions on here that differ, for once everyone is voicing them, including me, simply because I think the way everyone agrees on here and tries to be so PC in reference to everyone else on here is straight BS! Get a backbone, and welcome to the real world...where everyone isn't friends all the time, and God forbid, doesn't always agree on an issue.