[*In this same vein, telephone calls are made to hometowns to check this out. A young man told my daughter he was asked about her. She too has been called by people at other schools to ask about girls. *]
I'm with gp though. At the university I attend that's considered a rush infraction! If you can't decided between 2 houses, always talk to a rho chi and they can help you. That's what they are there for.
Also, everyone has a chance to be given a bid...they take the number of girls rushing and divide it by the number of houses. So, there is a chance for everyone!