As others have said, everyone is different. I lived in a dorm that was far away from the dorms that the rest of my pledge class were in, which meant I ate at different dining hall, didn't walk to classes with them, etc. While I liked being in my sorority, it wasn't until sophomore year when I went through rush on "the other side" with everyone and lived in the house that I really felt like I was part of a sisterhood.
Give it time, get involved, go to events, and I think the most important thing is to spend time with your sisters outside of sorority events. Go on a Target/grocery run with them, hang out and paint your nails together, etc. It's those times where I felt like I bonded with my sisters.
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