[sarahmass94]

Thats interesting to consider... I never really understood why she always threw what happened with her friend out there (and its not the hypothetical "friend", its someone who actually exists, I know of the person it was, just in case anyone took it that way). I'm so much different than her friend. I've never been a partier, I've never been interested in alcohol (couldn't get past the smell of most of the stuff even if I was interested), and I've never had a boyfriend, because I told the 2 guys that have been interested in me in the past nearly 18 years right off the bat that I had no intention of sleeping with them, and that I have no intention of having sex before I get married. My mom knows this stuff about me, and so it never made sense that she throws all that stuff out there as potential issues.