[IndianaSigKap]

I don't think that there is any ONE thing which makes a PNM stand out. Sometimes it's a combination of things, sometimes it's just a quality she possesses. I usually noticed a PNM when she looked like she was having a good time, smiling and genuinely engaged in the conversation. Sometimes I noticed a PNM who had self confidence, or a quiet calm about her, or elegance, or a quirkiness. It varied, PNM to PNM. My best advice to you is to Keep Calm and Carry On. :-) Be the best version of yourself you know how to be. Let the real you shine and the chapters will notice. It only takes one chapter to realize how special you are, and that's the chapter meant for you.