[DeltaBetaBaby]

Originally Posted by TracyJackson

I just found out that I did not get a bid from the fraternity I was rushing for. The rush co-chair said that since I came in a little bit late, I was not able to meet many of the brothers. Thus, the bid committee was not able to nominate me for a bid, since I only got to talk to 3 of the brothers before rush ended. He told me to consider spring rush, if I am still interested.

I am wondering...should I continue to go visit the house and hang out there, and maybe even attend a few of their chapter events in the fall? Yes, I know I did not have a bid and that I will not be a pledge because of that. But I still want to rush for that fraternity in the spring.

So, is it wise or possible to keep on visiting the chapter house, socialize and talk with the brothers and pledges, and maybe attend a couple of their events...even though I am not in the fraternity (cuz of no bid)?

Or should I break off contact until the spring rush?

Out of my lane, but what did the rush chair tell you to do? Has anyone invited you to hang out with them more?