[xorosho]

Hey, everyone. I need some help with informal rush etiquette and policies.

There are two sororities I'm rushing... Let's just call them ABC and XYZ

ABC is my first choice, and their interest sessions start in a few days.
XYZ is a second choice (kind of) and their interest sessions already started.

XYZ has their preference ceremony 10 days before ABC has their preference ceremony and has their bid day 6 days before ABC's pref ceremony. ABC didn't say when their bid day was.

What if I get a bid even before the pref ceremony from my top choice? I would still like to show interest in XYZ if I don't get a bid from ABC, but if I get a bid from both, I would rather join ABC.

Help!