Sentence structure is your friend. It's very hard to figure out what you're trying to tell us. And as knight_shadow said, you haven't asked a question.
If you're asking if you did the right thing, we can't answer that.
If you're asking for confirmation that you shouldn't have played along, that would depend on what was being asked of you. There is a certain amount of playing along that is required from you as a pledge. You can choose to have fun with it or you can stand your ground and say no. And the risk you take is exactly what happened - you can have your dignity or you can have the pledge pin. But this does not apply if what was being asked of you was harmful in any way. I'm not a believer that a person should cry hazing for every little thing, but if it was dangerous or sexually abusive, then you have an obligation to not just quit but to report it.
If you're asking if this incident has hurt your possibilities in the future, we can't answer that either. But 1-spend time getting to know men in a variety of fraternities this semester and 2-be prepared for similar or worse pledge antics at the better houses.
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