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Originally Posted by Hartofsec
??? How is telling a girl, who has a low GPA, that her options may be limited, or that she was likely dropped by chapters due to her grades, not honest?
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Telling a girl "If you had a 2.5, that may be part of the reason you got dropped" = OK.
Telling a girl "If you had a 2.5, that is definitely why you got dropped" = Not OK. For all we know, the girl had B.O. and was seen giving all the cafeteria workers hummers. If you say "it IS because of your grades" then a girl tends to say "oh, my grades are the only thing wrong with me and I can pull them up and sail through rush next year" - when that is NOT always the case.
Telling a girl "XYZ sorority WILL drop you if you don't have a 3.5" = super turbo NOT OK. Membership selection is a confidential process.